It is less than one week to go for our wedding, and as every groom and bride would face, we are under pressure with anxiety over almost everything under the sun related to the wedding preparations.
As we were in prayer this morning, God spoke to both of us through Phil 4, a part of which we would like to share with you in this post.
1. Always Rejoice
Philippians 4:4 (AMP)
Rejoice in the Lord always delight, gladden yourselves in Him; again I say, Rejoice!
It is a continual commandment in the bible, rejoice, rejoice, rejoice in the Lord!!! If we can make it a practice to rejoice irrespective of our circumstances, there will be no problem or worry that will look big for us.
2. Remain Unselfish
Philippians 4:5 (AMP)
Let all men know and perceive and recognize your unselfishness (your considerateness, your forbearing spirit). The Lord is near; He is coming soon.
It is in times of immense pressure that we tend to become more selfish (than what we already are) and struggle to change everything to revolve around our likes and wants. At this point, the greatest lesson to be learned is the lesson of selflessness. We have to do our best to not give in to the temptation of becoming selfish no matter how much the situation demands.
3. Don’t Worry
Philippians 4:6 (AMP)
Do not fret or have any anxiety about anything..
This one is a very lightly taken yet a very firm and important commandment in the holy Bible. Jesus emphasises it over and over again. We do not gain anything out of worrying, hence it would be best to leave the thinking part to God. I’m not saying we shouldn’t plan our lives or that we shouldn’t prepare accordingly. What it means here is that we shouldn’t fret about things or be anxious about the temporary and little things in life.
4. Be Prayerful
Philippians 4:6 (AMP)
..but in every circumstance and in everything, by prayer and petition (definite requests)..
We can never replace the importance and essentiality of prayer with positive thinking or avoiding worrying. Prayer is basically that state of your heart where you yield yourself to God and express your dependency on Him. The verse commands us to pray in every circumstances good and bad, fun and boring times equally.
5. Go Grateful:
Philippians 4:6 (AMP)
..with thanksgiving, continue to make your wants known to God.
And finally, remain grateful to God. Giving thanks is an attitude that not only shows God that you have not taken Him or His blessings for granted but also set yourself up for more blessing and breakthroughs!
And here’s the reward if you follow the above five things.
Philippians 4:7 (NLT)
Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
Is there anything more precious than enjoying the peace of God in our hearts and minds? It will not only guard us but also guide us into all the ways of God.
May I ask you how you’ve handled anxiety and worry in your life? Does this post help you? What is it that helped you the most? Do share!
Praise the Lord brother Priji π what a wonderful post!!! Hallelujah!!! Indeed Satan brings anxieties in our hearts and minds…but the sweetest comfort is that We can directly take those worries at the feet of our Master who is more concerned to hear us π and when we do that, His loves fills us sooo greatly π This mrng even i was telling God that my parents want me to search a new job…but i was so in sorrow as to how and where to begin.. π as my desire is to do something which glorifies my Dadda Lord π so as i was telling Him my hearts concerns, the next thing i said is..”Dadda You know my heart na…please lead me to glorify You. I leave all my cares to You.” π How great is that comfort!!! Thanks brother for this comforting word…i needed it badly π
and brother a hearty congratulations for your marriage π i will keep you and Rashmi chechi in my prayer π may the awesome God bless you both graciously π
Hi Pastor Priji I have been so bless by this post
Perfect sequence in which the message you conveyed , thanks brother for sharing it to us:) god bless.
That was truly a message I needed this very hour. I don’t clearly remember how many times I have expressed selflessness,greatfulness and praise to God when anxious. But I want to turn genuine in that area too. Thank You for the message, Pastor π
Hello Deepthi, glad to know that the post has been a blessing to you and that God spoke to you, prayers assured in your journey of pursuing God!
You are welcome Niyati, honoured to know God used this post to bless you! Continue to enjoy a worry free life!
Wow! Hallelujah!
Thank you so much Rebecca, wish you all of God’s goodness even as you pursue him!
Thank you so much for the wishes. Glad to know that God spoke to you through this post. May God continue to lead and to guide you!
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Very nice article and very well described. Thanks to you Pastor Priji.
Follow all these to reduce the Anxiety:
1. Do cooking
2. Do walking, jogging
3. Laugh heavily in laughter club.
4. Gossip
5. Make a good friend circle, meet them and chat regularly
6. Participate in some sports
Other than I do I do yoga and normal exercise without weight regularly. After that I lights two three Cycle sandal agarbatti and start meditating. The Sandal smell helps a lot to concentrate. I feel all the people need to do Yoga, meditation to rejuvenate mind and keep Anxiety in bay.